What the Fuck?

I'll never understand why a man would have to pay so much child support for kids that are pretty much grown. How could you pay so much and the mom still can't afford anything. I think if they money really was being used on the kids, they shouldn't need anything. Even when she was getting the full amount every week, he was still a dead beat. What the fuck ever. My boyfriend's ex needs to get a life or if money is that tight get a job to take care of your own kids better. I raise my daughter for 7 years without a dime of child support. (Not that I wanted any from her father) And she had everything she wanted and needed. So women just can't do it own there own. I guess that's what happens when you're kids are nothing but dollar signs to you. I feel sorry for them all.